Wooo, gentle yet direct! How close are you to your black “friends”? This is an eye-opener for those of us who have black acquaintances, co-workers, neighbors, friends, and/or relatives. It’s also a great resource for people of color to share with friends that are not quite sure how to respond to your fight against racism and the challenges you might be facing at this time. Super important information everyone should read.


I'm Melinda Stevens and living the life of a beach bum was inevitable since my father was a lifeguard for the city of Los Angeles. My memories of growing up on John Street in Manhattan Beach, California were filled with joy, excitement and adventures; until my world, as I knew it, fell apart when we moved to Del Mar, California. My father was offered the position as Captain of the lifeguards and we started the slow migration to the small deserted stretch of beach in 1963. At twelve years old, this seemed like the end of my life. Remember, I’m writing with clear hindsight now, ok somewhat clearer… Little did I know this would be the beginning of a new journey and give a bit more clarity to many of the events that led me to this new cooking adventure.